Deep Dive on Showers & Hygiene

August 2026 Workshop - Replay & Cheatsheets

The recording below will be blank until 24-48 hours after the live workshop has concluded.‍ ‍

In the meantime, you can still download the cheatsheet at the bottom of the page, and here’s the zoom info for the upcoming event!

Topic: Deep Dive on Showers & Hygiene

Time: Aug 20, 2026 07:30 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)

Zoom Meeting Link: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/84763694657?pwd=Maw1oA9LhCQoFDOMBcLfYx5hIikQiG.1

Dial in number (if needed): +1 720-707-2699

Meeting ID: 847 6369 4657

Passcode: 050526

Downloads/Printables

Shower Refusals Checklist

  • Pinpoint the real reason behind the refusal, from pain to embarrassment to plain overwhelm, so you can stop guessing and know what you're actually up against.

  • Rule out the physical causes first, like a sore shoulder or a UTI hiding behind a refusal that came on suddenly, so you're not spending weeks talking your way through a medical problem.

  • Match the reason to the fix instead of trying everything at once, so you can walk in with a plan the next time they tell you no.

Why They Refuse to Shower Checklist

  • Spot what you may be doing that's feeding the refusal, from too many words to too many steps at once, so you can change your approach instead of pushing harder.

  • Work through the reasons in the order to check them, so you get to the source of the problem before you say a word and stop trying the right approach on the wrong problem.

  • Keep a record of what actually worked for your person, so your hardest won wins are still there next week and for whoever helps you next.

Shopping List for Showers & Incontinence

  • Find every rinse free product I trust for the days a real shower isn't happening, from no rinse soap to shower wipes to dry shampoo, so you can get them clean without the bathroom fight.

  • Get the incontinence products that actually fit your person, including adaptive clothing, wipe warmers and barrier creams, so changes stop turning into a wrestling match.

  • Click straight through to buy each one, plus the caregiving websites I use when Amazon doesn't carry it, so you can stop losing evenings to reading reviews.